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Who is this assessment for?
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I'm a Man
Experiencing relationship difficulties, conflict, or control patterns
Take Men's Assessment →I'm a Woman
Experiencing abuse, relationship difficulties, or seeking support
Take Women's Assessment →I'm Supporting Someone
Child, family member, or friend experiencing relationship difficulties
View Support Resources →I'm Concerned About Children
Child safety, impact of conflict, or co-parenting concerns
View Child Resources →New
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Not sure which to choose?
Both assessments cover similar topics but use gender-specific language and examples. If you're uncertain, either assessment will provide helpful insights. You can also explore our resources directly: